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Sunday, July 10, 2011

Saying What Really Needs to be Said

Ahhh... we all have something to say, don't we? A lot of us are too shy to just say it. Some will only tell of few what they really think. And then there are those like me, who ALWAYS have something to say. Well, this is one of my ways of doing just that, saying what needs to be said. I've always been the type to say what I really think, which hasn't always been to my advantage. I've made enemies with more than one teacher because I've said what I think at the wrong time. Now that I've learned to say what needs to be said, and a bunch more, I just have to learn when and where I should. Easy, right? Wrong. But, hopefully this blog will help with that, cause I can just be myself, and say what needs to be said, and no one will be annoyed that it was the wrong time or place, cause it wasn't my fault they read it right when they did, wherever they were. :)

Although we all have something to say, not all of those "somethings" are important. Part of always having something to say is learning what needs to be said. Not having regrets is hard, but worth it. Standing up for  what you believe in and what matters, that you will never regret. But it is hard to think far ahead enough in the moment to realize what you would regret saying and what you would regret not saying. 

For some, it is much harder to stand up for themselves and what they believe in, to say what needs to be said and say what they really and truly think. Those might stay out of trouble with teachers, but they will never realize their true potential if they can't say what needs to be said in the moment it needs to be said. They will always be pushed around and let others live their life for them unless they can learn to go out of their comfort zones and stand up for what matters. 

So whether you are having a tough time holding your peace and speaking only when the silence on that topic truly needs to be broken, or whether you have to gather the courage to say what you really think, everyone has issues with their speech. But we're all in this together, and we can help each other out. 

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